Before jumping into the delivery of our son Nash, let me wrap up the pregnancy with the final bump photos.
Nash was ‘frank breech’ (meaning presenting bottom first and feet up in his face) the entire pregnancy. It made things very uncomfortable from about week 20 on and affected my ability to workout or even walk beyond 1 mile. We had many ultra sounds to see if he would flip around to a head down position, but he never did so we were scheduled for a c-section. This would be my first experience with a c-section and I was anxious about the procedure and feelings of the baby being removed. We work for a large company so it was easy to find many women who’ve had c-sections and could help ease some of my fears that their procedures all went well. Still it’s the not knowing that remained with me and was my only apprehension to the whole process.
Since we were having a scheduled c-section, we got to pick the delivery date that week and Rob chose Leap Day. 😀 He thought it would be cool and since this baby was a boy I figured maybe he would agree with his Dad. People asked us how we plan to celebrate his birthday on non-Leap Years. I think we will celebrate on the last day of February so that we stick with the birth month (which will then work for school when they acknowledge the birth month of the students, it would be Feb).
Our c-section was scheduled for 7:15am and I had to get checked in 2 hours ahead. I was surprised to find out that between questions, monitoring, IVs, etc. that the entire 2 hours is needed and filled with activity.
They had us ready to go and things moved really fast from there.
They had me walk down to the operating room. I said to the nurse, “it’s funny we are going to a room that is basically like your office everyday and for me it’s a very intimidating scene”. The room was bright with two very large surgical lights over the bed and there were a lot of surgical tools on tables on one side. I made sure not to look, but I did catch a glimpse of one of the spreader type tools that would help open me up – yuck! That stuff freaks me out and I can’t even watch it on tv, let alone see it in person.
They sat me on the table and proceeded with the epidural. It was different getting it this time without the contractions. The pain of contractions over played my nerves about the pain of receiving an epidural last time. This time I just had to psych up for it and let it happen. It wasn’t the worst pain the world and it takes affect so quickly. My legs became warm dead weights and the staff picked them up and positioned me on the table.
We brought in our own music for the surgery including music from Dave Matthews Band, Jack Johnson, and Christina Perri. I’m so glad we had the music so I could focus on it and and Rob. I avoided looking straight up into the two large lights because you could see a reflection of the surgery in the glass.
I had heard people describe pulling and shifting of your insides. A couple of statements made by the staff was “your stomach was distorted by his position in the womb”, which matched my feelings carrying him and not being able to comfortably work out the final trimester. And they also mentioned “there is no way he would have flipped on his own with how he was folded up in there” and “wow he’s big”. What I was not prepared for was the popping feeling up near my ribs that felt like a rib bone being popped out of my body. And with that final feeling he was here! It was amazing that by 7:00am I was getting my epidural and by 7:30am our little man had arrived. It all happened so fast! I was happy that we were still able to have delayed cord clamping and skin on skin right away. I was able to hold him right then and there, it was perfect!
Baby Nash – 8 lbs 5 oz, 21.5 inches long
While the deliver was fast the recovery not so much. I felt great afterward, but in the matter of an hour the drugs that were in my system started giving me side effects. I was quite ill feeling for a few hours and got sick a couple of times which is painful with an incision in you abdomen. I couldn’t cough or sneeze without terrible pain either. Eventually I was allowed to walk to the bathroom and finally eat food later that afternoon. I had forgotten how busy the whole process is of having a baby too. Nurses in doctors are in the room constantly checking on the baby and me. Needless to say I was ready to go home as soon as possible. We were able to be discharged after 48 hrs.
I know each child is different about meeting a sibling. In Chase’s case it was completely smooth because she wanted a sibling from the beginning. She had been anticipating her brother’s arrival for so long and she is completely in love with him. We had them exchange gifts since we knew others that had done that, but she didn’t need that at all, it was just a bonus. Chase gushes on Nash every chance she sees him, it’s so wonderful to watch. 🙂
Hanging out with Daddy
Heading Home 😀
I’ll post more about Nash and his development in an upcoming post. Now back to baby snuggle time for me. 🙂